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Monday, April 19, 2010

Jonathan Livingston Seagull

By RICHARD BACH


The most celebrated inspirational fable of our time

This is a story for people who follow their dreams and make their own rules; a story that has inspired people for decades. 

For most seagulls, life consists simply of eating and surviving. Flying is just a means of finding food. However, Jonathan Livingston Seagull is no ordinary bird. For him, flying is life itself. Against the conventions of seagull society, he seeks to find a higher purpose and become the best at doing what he loves.


This is a fable about the importance of making the most of our lives, even if our goals run contrary to the norms of our flock, tribe or neighbourhood. Through the metaphor of flight, Jonathan’s story shows us that, if we follow our dreams, we too can soar.


PART ONE

It was morning, and the new sun sparkled gold across the ripples of a gentle sea and the word for Breakfast Flock flashed through the air, but, Jonathan Livingston Seagull was practicing to fly.

For most gulls, it is not flying that matters, but eating. For this gull, though, it was not eating that mattered, but flight. There’s so much to learn! It wasn’t long before Jonathan Gull was off by himself again, far out at sea, hungry, happy, learning.

“I just want to know what I can do in the air and what I can’t, that’s all. I just want to know.” The subject was speed, and in a week’s practice he learned more about speed than the fastest gull alive.

But victory was short-lived. The instant he began his pull-out, the instant he changed the angle of his wings, he snapped into that same terrible uncontrolled disaster, and at ninety miles per hour it hit him like dynamite.

I am done with the way I was, I am done with everything I learned. I am a seagull like every other sea-gull, and I will fly like one, so he thought. There would be no ties now to force that had driven him to learn, there would be no more challenge and no more failure. And it was pretty, just to stop thinking, and fly through the dark, toward the lights above the beach.

Dark! But Seagulls never fly in the dark! By sunup, Jonathan Gull was practicing again. From five thousand feet the fishing boats were specks in the flat blue water. He was alive, trembling ever so slightly with delight, proud that his fear was under control. He spared no time that day for talk with other gulls, but flew on past sunset. He discovered the loop, the slow roll, the point roll, the inverted spin, the gull bunt, the pinwheel.

He thought, of the Breakthrough. How much more there is now to living! Instead of our drab slogging forth and back to the fishing boats, there’s a reason to life! We can lift ourselves out of ignorance, we can find ourselves as creatures of excellence and intelligence and skill. We can be free! We can learn to fly!

The years ahead hummed and glowed with promise. Who is more responsible than a gull that finds and follows a meaning, a higher purpose for life?

“For a thousand years we have scrabbled after fish heads, but now we have a reason to live — to learn, to discover, to be free! Give me one chance; let me show you what I’ve found ...” Jonathan addressed his flock.

“The Brotherhood is broken,” the gulls intoned together, and with one accord they solemnly closed their ears and turned their backs upon him.

His one sorrow was not solitude, it was that other gulls refused to believe the glory of flight that awaited them; they refused to open their eyes and see.

He learned more each day. He learned to sleep in the air, setting a course at night across the offshore wind, covering a hundred miles from sunset to sunrise. With the same inner control, he flew through heavy sea fogs and climbed above them into dazzling clear skies ... in the very times when every other gull stood on the ground, knowing nothing but mist and rain. What he had once hoped for the Flock, he now gained for himself alone; he learned to fly, and was not sorry for the price that he had paid.

Jonathan Seagull discovered that boredom and fear and anger are the reasons that a gull’s life is so short, and with these gone from his thought, he lived a long life indeed.

That day the two gulls that appeared at his wings were pure as starlight, and the glow from them was gentle and friendly in the high night air. “One school is finished, and the time has come for another to begin” said they.

They were right. He could fly higher, and it was time to go home. And Jonathan Livingston Seagull rose with the two star- bright gulls to disappear into a perfect dark sky.



PART TWO

So this is heaven, he thought, and he had to smile at himself. He saw that his own body was growing as bright as theirs. He began, delightedly, to learn about them, to press power into these new wings.

Sullivan was his guide. “You have any idea how many lives we must have gone through before we even got the first idea that there is more to life than eating, or fighting, or power in the Flock? The same rule holds for us now, of course: we choose our next world through what we learn in this one. Learn nothing, and the next world is the same as this one, all the same limitations and lead weights to overcome” said Sullivan.

“You will begin to touch heaven, Jonathan, in the moment that you touch perfect speed. And that isn’t flying a thousand miles an hour, or a million, or flying at the speed of light. Because any number is a limit and perfection doesn’t have limits. Perfect speed, my son, is being there.” said the Elder Gull, the senior instructor. “The gulls who scorn perfection for the sake of travel go nowhere. Those who put aside travel for the sake of perfection go any- where, instantly. Remember, Jonathan, heaven isn’t a place or a time, because place and time are so very meaningless.”

To fly as fast as thought to anywhere that is you must begin by knowing that you have already arrived. The trick according to Chiang was for Jonathan to stop seeing himself as trapped inside a limited body. The trick was to know that his true nature lived, as perfect as an unwritten number, everywhere at once across space and time.

“Forget about faith!” Chiang, trained by the Elder Gull, said it time and again. “You didn’t need faith to fly, you needed to understand flying.

“Why, that’s true! I am a perfect, unlimited gull!”

He felt a great shock of joy.

“You have less fear of learning than any gull. We can start working with time if you wish,” Chiang instructed the new learners, “till you can fly the past and the future. And then you will be ready to begin the most difficult, the most powerful, and the most fun of all. You will be ready to begin to fly up and know the meaning of kindness and of love.”

The gull sees farthest who flies highest.

And the more Jonathan practiced his kindness lessons and the more he worked to know the nature of true love, the more he wanted to go back to earth. For, in spite of his lonely past, he was born to be an instructor and his own way of demonstrating love was to give something of the truth that he had seen to a gull who asked only a chance to see truth for himself. He had to go back.

“If our friendship depends on things like space and time, then when we finally overcome space and time, we’ve destroyed our own brotherhood!” said Jonathan to a sighing Sullivan as they parted ways.

Next, Jonathan finds a learner in Fletcher to fly. “ Do you want to fly so much that you will forgive the Flock, and learn, and go back to them one day and work to help them know?” asked Jonathan to Fletcher Lynd Seagull, who was annoyed at his flock for refusing to learn to fly. Fletcher replied “ I do”.


PART THREE

“Each of us is in truth an idea of the Great Gull, an unlimited idea of freedom.” Jonathan would say in the evenings on the beach to his flock, “Precision flying is a step toward expressing our real nature. Everything that limits us we have to put aside. Your whole body, from wingtip to wingtip, is nothing more than your thought itself, in a form you can see. Break the chains of your thought, and you break the chains of your body, too ... you have the freedom to be yourself, your true self, here and now, and nothing can stand in your way.”

Why is it, Jonathan was puzzled, that the hardest thing in the world is to convince a bird that he is free, and that he can prove it for himself if he’d just spend a little time practicing? You don’t love hatred and evil, of course. You have to practice and see the real gull, the good in every one of them, and to help them see it in them-selves. “That’s what I mean by love. It’s fun, when you get the knack of it.”

Jonathan sighed and looked out to sea.

To Fletcher, he said kindly, “You don’t need me any longer. You need to keep finding yourself, a little more each day, that real, unlimited Fletcher Seagull. He’s your instructor. You need to understand him and to practice him.”

“Don’t believe what your eyes are telling you. All they show is limitation. Look with your understanding, find out what you already know, and you’ll see the way to fly.”

Jonathan Seagull had vanished into air.

Fletcher Gull had now a new brand of students. “To begin with,” Fletcher said heavily to them, “you’ve got to understand that a seagull is an unlimited idea of freedom, an image of the Great Gull, and your whole body, from wingtip to wingtip, is nothing more than your thought itself.”

And saying that, he understood, all at once that his friend Jonathan had quite honestly been no more divine, than Fletcher himself. He saw his students and liked what he saw. No limits Jonathan, he thought and smiled.

His race to learn had begun.


The author is a writer and pilot and has authored three books on the mystique of flying.

Condensed by Ms Harina, State Bank Learning Centre, Indore

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Growing up

‘What wonderful days were those
Mother’s lap and father’s shoulders
Today, I remember
Everything that has been left behind-
Sleeping, while still crying
Talking to myself
Lost in fancy thoughts
Calling desperately for mother
Fed patiently by her loving hand
Waiting day long for father to come
Awaiting the fulfillment of little desires
What wonderful days of childhood-
Why did everything go so far away?
Now it is only me and my rigidity
My own demands and frustrations
Whom should I tell what I want?
Searching for my goals, I lost myself
O! Why did I grow so much?’


Precious moments, shared with our dear mother and father, are memories today that are nostalgic but give a deep fulfillment. Words fail to express the love and care received so abundantly as a child, where every little pain suffered was erased by a loving cuddle and lots of kisses. To all the problems faced, there were only one solution- parents! All that needed to be done was to tell them and be rest assured!



That was childhood, however, and one does not remain a child forever.



Discovering oneself gradually is growth. Breaking off boundaries, seeking freedom to express, to act, to be oneself is a journey where one may relate to another or walk alone to reach a destination that may or may not be clear. It is time to make a choice, to decide, to walk the path, to shoulder responsibilities alone or with the help of a companion. There may not be anyone to lead, to hold hand, to console, to guide, to love and care, unlike during childhood. Now one is an adult and is expected to fly on his own, create his skies, for it is believed his wings are strong enough to reach loftier heights.



The bright horizon is in view, however the spirit within the man is in the dark. He alone knows what it holds, the joys, the fantasies, the dreams, the deep bruises, the tears, pains, the secrets, for there may not be any soul in sight to share!



For the world, he has won laurels for his fight to the finish, but his struggle within is to discover love and he has failed to find it! The smile he carries on his face is unnatural, hiding the grief of loneliness.



O Lord! Can I be a child again and be myself in the arms of love? Can I belong to all and can all be mine in a relationship that recognizes all equally? In the house of the ‘grown up’, I see the awards, the rewards, the name, the fame, the wealth, the relations that are a burden--- where is love, where is the life of gay abandon, of play and joy, of loving laps and brave arms, of forgiveness for every error, of faith that someone cares!



Where is my home, sweet home that I want to rush into, throwing all burdens into the air and jumping into open arms I trust and love, just like a bubbly kid returning home from school?



Growing up cannot be so painful- hey, am I on the wrong path?



Am I seeking out what is within?



Can I laugh and cry, forgive and forget, have faith and love, enjoy what I do—can I be a child within once again?



Can I grow within and relive the joys of childhood?

Can I feel like a child again? Can I live again?


CONTRIBUTED BY Ms HARINA, FACULTY, SBLC, INDORE

Sunday, March 14, 2010

The Evolutionary Perspective of Man

By V. Srinivas

The Evolutionary Perspective refers to man’s capacity to grow, respond, change, transform within the context of life.

It defines man as having two dimensions – one, the biological dimension, and a second, the trans-biological dimension

The biological dimension sees evolution as adaptability to circumstances. (The biological imperative).

The trans-biological dimension sees evolution as the capacity to become what we choose to become (The aspirational imperative)

An organization’s leader can, through precept and practice, raise the consciousness of a collective in such a way that it releases itself from a reactive “we need to adapt to changing circumstances” view of life and grows into a free intentioned “we choose to create a new future for ourselves and society” view of life.

Such a movement may be viewed as a release from ‘biological perspective’ of organizational life (survival of the fittest) to a ‘wisdom perspective’ of organizational life (enabling each one of us to manifest the infinite possibilities within oneself)

Extract from Paper: “Wisdom Perspectives - Perspectives, Principles, Practices; December 2009; V. Srinivas)

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Sachin scores the first double hundred in ODI!!!

A True Evolving Citizen!

Brilliant! Brilliant! Brilliant!!



We don't stop playing because we grow old;
We grow old because we stop playing.
                     

George Bernard Shaw















39 years of One day internationals and not a single double hundred. Many batsmen came close but none succeeded. But today was different. Sachin Tendulkar had a date with history. The master scored an unbeaten 200 against South Africa at Gwalior becoming the first ever batsman in ODI history to score a double hundred.

What a proud moment for all Indians! India’s greatest son has yet again given us a moment to cherish.

CitizenSBI Blog is proud of you. Sachin, you are truly an Evolving Citizen!

photo and part of text courtesy: tendulkar.co.in

Monday, February 22, 2010

Hi, My Name Is Blind...and I Am Not A Loser!

THE SPIRIT IS WILLING
AND THE FLESH IS ALSO NOT WEAK!

Listening to the laughter and lively talks of a 20 year old over the phone, his boyish jokes, his creative thoughts, his dreams, his emotions, his love for his mom and that he is a physiotherapist at his age, one can only marvel at the miracle that Dr. Harshit is - visually impaired but living life to its fullest!
A gold medalist, Dr. Harshit is the proud son of Smt. Pratima Jaithwar, of State Bank of Indore , I.E. Branch, Ratlam and Shri Kailash C. Jaithwar of SBBJ, Ratlam. He completed his secondary and college education by listening to recorded cassettes of subjects in his syllabus. He is able to independently operate his computer, mobile and also the ATM, the credit for which he passes on to his dear mother.
Harshit loves branded clothes, even had Aamir’s Ghazni style hair cut once, and loves life. A mother’s heart weeps at the fate of the son on his inability to see the colorful world- but Harshit consoles her that he has been very fortunate that he could see its beauty for twelve years and reminds her of those who are born blind!
Reproduced below is his address to us, a brief version of how he has met life, straight on its face:


“Hi, My name is BLIND and I am not a Loser!




Dr Harshit Jaithwar Rathore

In my journey, I saw many ups and downs like others. I lost my eyesight at the age of 12yrs.

Firstly, I lost my vision in one eye at the age of 4yrs and in the 2nd one at 12yrs. Doctors say that I had retinal detachment and there is not much treatment available in this field.



However, many researches are going on in this field to root out blindness because there are around 50 million blinds in the world and among those, 2 million blind cases are directly or indirectly related to this problem. About 50% cases are here in India only. Note these are only registered blinds; otherwise the numbers will be much higher than expected.



My education was in the normal school and my all teachers and friends have played a major role to play in my life..



I did my 10th with Mathematics and then 12th in Biology which was the most difficult task for anyone blind and finally became a milestone for me.



Then I completed my Physiotherapy course from one of the prestigious Medical college from Ahmedabad and managed to bring the gold medal in Madhya Pradesh 1st time in the 50yrs of my college history and became youngest Physiotherapist of my college. There I learned my mobility, my integrated courses for survival and became independent.



I was associated with many of the prestigious hospitals among which Narayan Sewa Sansthan, Udaipur is one of the examples. Presently I am having my personal Physiotherapy centre at Ratlam (MP) and also preparing for various post graduation entrance tests.



In my journey there are two eyes through which I can see the world and which transmit vision’s sensory impulses to the brain, whether to see
sweet dreams or any nightmares etc.

If God is there on the Earth, then here is the God. These are like God to me... Yes, they are my parents, who are always with me in each and every sphere of life. I am very fortunate that I am having such great parents who always motivate me and encourage me.



As we all know, in the end of all stories, all gets well and if not, then the story is still to go, and my story is also not completed till yet and I am sure, will go a long long way...”

Warm regards to all of you!

Dr. Harshit Jaithwar Rathore
Cure 4 Sure
Physiotherapy Health Care Centre
Kasturba Nagar, Near BSNL Office
Ratlam (Madya Pradesh)
Email: c4s2009@gmail.com
Skype ID: hary.rules
Mobile: +91-9981238987


Harshit’s words, “My name is BLIND”, hit the hardest. And in it, he has a profound message for all of us. Insensitively, we address the physically challenged as blind, lame, deaf, dumb, etc. They all have a name and seldom do we talk about them by their name. Why should they be addressed by their physical challenges, when they have emerged victorious over it and have stood up to be counted? Where do the masses stand with their self created problems, when these miracle makers forge ahead, leading others, as path finders, despite their genuine physical limitations?
Harshit is enthusiastic about Valentine’s Day and with his usual laughter shares his grandma’s idea of him holding a red rose and waiting at the door of his care center for someone to accept it.
Would you love to accept a rose from him?
“Dear Harshit, Citizen SBI Blog with all like minded readers today, apologizes to you and vows never to address anyone by their physical challenges. We love you and are very proud of you.
"And look at all the blooming red roses all around you, touching you in an abundant flow of love for you. And yes, you deserve much more than that!”

Contributed by Ms Harina, Citizen Facilitator, SBLC, Indore.

Life Audit


  • Are you growing in fulfillment?
  • Have you made any positive contribution today?
  • Have you faced a citizen choice today? Have you chosen correctly?
  • Are you enabling others to be citizens?

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Citizen-SBI has given me strength to tide over difficult times

I was on a hopping flight from Indore to Hyderabad last Thursday. Mr Bharat Keswani boarded the flight at Nagpur. Both of us had a common destination - SBIICM, Hyderabad. All the AGMs of SBLCs had gathered there for an award function for the best Satellite Centre. Keswani received the consolation prize for SBLC, Jabalpur from Mr Krishna Kumar, DMD(IT).

Keswani conducted the first citizenship orientation programme at Bhopal on 1st September 2010 and is one of the finest facilitators in our Circle. He has a deep conviction and is sincerely devoted to the cause. We have the best programme feedback from participants for the programmes running at his centre.

He is undergoing a difficult phase of his life now. His father passed away recently. His 13-year old son has a serious problem with his lever and is undergoing check-ups and treatment at Hyderabad. Besides, he is facing some personal problems also.

On our return flight, Keswani told me that the citizenship programme has given him a lot of strength to face these difficult times. The spirit of postive contribution is now thoroughly ingrained in him and he gives his best not only at his workplace but also at home.

Earlier, he left the domestic affairs totally to his wife. Now, on his way back from office, he collects vegetables for home and fruits and medicines for his son. To make his movements inside the market easier, he has started using a scooter instead of car. He senses a clear shift and change inside him. He is becoming a better human being, sees meaning in life and contributes without hesitation in all spheres. He is trying to give the best treatment to his son and spending a lot of quality time with him. He feels more and more affectionate towards him. Even his little son is able to see the devotion in his father and has started cooperating in taking medicines willingly and strictly keeping away from junk food.

Keswani expressed his deep gratitude to colleagues in SBIICM who have stood by him in these difficult times and Citizen-SBI which has given him deep inner strength and fortitude to face the calamity with hope and faith. We wish his little son a speedy recovery!

-CoolBisht, Indore

Sunday, January 10, 2010

Citizenship as a way of life

I have found my Guru

A Life Transforming Encounter With Citizenship


I feel quite fulfilled in my journey of life. I have reaped sufficient outer fruits, plenty of inner fruits and countless joys of contribution. The only fruit that eluded me is promotion. Of late, I have also started hoodwinking it as a return gesture! I have a well located house, a decent lifestyle, cheerful health (touch wood!), a loving family, good friends of both sexes (much to the envy of some of my dear friends!), some publications to my credit, a steady growth, an understanding of human behaviour, taste for arts and culture, satisfaction of contributing significantly to my extended family and an ever growing pool of well wishers.



Though I always felt at peace with myself, I had no one to look up to in intriguing times. My friends went to temples and prayed, some of them pursued yoga and meditation and others had their own ways of finding solace. I do not believe in any rituals though I don’t mind going to temples etc. During times of crisis, I felt a sense of void. May be it was because I had a predominantly scientific view of life.



I have been a sincere student of human psychology and a behavioural science trainer (minus the eccentricities, of course). I delved in to positive psychology and was for a while thinking of designing a programme on authentic happiness (based on the work of Martin Seligman and others on the subject) as my mission in life is to make people happy. The school of thought I was following laid down various components of happiness beautifully and, in the end, stipulated that all these would bring happiness but you should also do something worthwhile and meaningful in your life. Making a positive contribution was just one of the building blocks of authentic happiness among so many others.





Beginning of my citizenship journey



It was sometime in June 2009 when all the Circle Development Officers and Intervention Leaders gathered for the first workshop on Project Citizen-SBI at the Corporate Centre, Mumbai. This was the first time we saw and heard Mr V Srinivas – half-sleeved white shirt, curly hair and the glow of conviction. He propounded the concept well but most of the audience at that time felt that it was too abstract. I remember interacting with him during the lunch break to share with him my experience with Parivartan and the need for Hindi and vernacular versions of the programme. I extended an invitation to conduct pilots in Bhopal Circle and also complimented him for his outstanding oratory skills, knowing little then about his deep conviction and intense engagement with the subject.



Then we had a longish workshop and pilots at Taj Banjara, Hyderabad during August where I found time to go through the foundation notes on various dimensions of citizenship. This was followed by pilots at State Bank Academy, Gurgaon where we had a solid apprenticeship in all nuances of Citizenship and also the art of facilitation. Here, I would like to add that this programme has given us a rich pool of well equipped facilitators and prompted our Training System to take a giant paradigm leap forward. Later on, the facilitator gym back home was a unique experience. We shuttled many a times to the multi purpose hall at the Bandra-Kurla complex to fine tune the programme versions and our own understanding of citizenship.



A new way of life
As the citizenship orientation programmes progressed, I found myself deeply immersed in citizenship – classes, travel, talking with participants over phone, contributing for the Google groups of Intervention Leaders and Facilitators, setting up and propagating the CitizenSBI blog, answering all the queries from across the country (as if I was an expert in citizenship!) and developing a real as well as a virtual citizen community. I found that I was working and thinking citizenship 24x7 and felt charged up all through with no traces of fatigue. Some friends started saying that I have internalized citizenship and was becoming more and more citizenized with each passing day. All put together, we looked at 101 dimensions of citizenship from 1001 different angles. Don’t believe? Just go through the groups and the blog!



It then dawned upon me that I have discovered a new way of life. I had started contributing positively on a regular and continuous basis in so many spheres and was in a state of flow. In my college days I had adopted cricket as a view of life. Cricket helps you to develop sportsman spirit, accept defeat as well as victory and is a gentleman’s game. The citizenship philosophy gives a lot of fulfilment as we continuously get opportunities to touch lives of others. It is not just something swantah sukhai, it caters to the welfare of others.

Friday, December 4, 2009

Citizen-SBI has put me on the path where I can experience life and its blessings

It was a revelation to me when I went through the two days programme on Citizen SBI. I discovered why I was where I am now--- it was my entire attitude towards my life! I had in fact always taken life very lightly—my decisions were sudden and abrupt—never backed by serious thinking. On the spur of the moment I would act and many times it was only my emotions that guided me in my life. I was never bothered about the repercussions of my actions on my life.

I lost heavily in life, nearly all my material possessions were gone, taken away by near ones with whom I was blindly bound through marital relations and my internal strength that I had accumulated through a long life of spirituality and dedication also suffered drastically and I felt like a corpse. I was not even available to my dear ones, especially my little kids.

SBI has proved to be the greatest support to me during my darkest days and weakest hours and I will remain forever indebted to this great institution.

Self development courses did help me to come out of my trauma and start life afresh, but my learning’s were still incomplete. I did accept the fact of my life, but wondered why it happened to me. I continued to look at life emotionally, unable to think rationally. It was as if the fever was gone but its virus remained in my blood, but at the moment it was dormant. The horror was that any moment the virus may become active and I will repeat history in my life. Naturally, I am not prepared for it, nor can I expose my kids to the trauma.

I was always bothered with the question why me? My search for a satisfying answer concluded with the lessons I gathered from Citizen SBI and the blame game also ended. I decided to put the tools I learnt during the programme to practice and now I am confident of leading myself on the correct path towards greater fulfillment, devoid of any guilt. I not only feel secured of myself but I know I am providing a better life to the young ones who are totally dependent on me for survival and growth as good citizens.

I am grateful to my SBI and for having provided great self awareness through the programme Citizen SBI. It has put me on the path of growth where I can experience life and its blessings.


- A Citizen-SBI

(This contribution has been received through e-mail and the Citizen Contributor has requested us not to publish it under the real name - Moderator)

Monday, November 30, 2009

Behavioural change


It is a wonderful and tremendous experience to facilitate a programme in Citizenship Orientation Programme. Every programme is a new programme and gives a lot of new insight into the various ideas and concepts.
After facilitation of 25 programmes, I am feeling a lot of changes in my behaviour.
The behavioural change has been noticed by my family members. One day my daughter told me that now a days I behave cool, calm. Earlier I was a bit impatient but now I have a huge amount of patience and self confidence which I got as inner fruits from this programme.

- Arun Kalway